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My husband John and I and all the members of the Swingers Lifetime network would like to welcome you to our website. We hope you will find everything you need to learn and enjoy this lifestyle. This website is our contribution to the swinging lifestyle and the swingers’ community. In effect, John and I heard about his from a friend 13 years ago and decided to try it. We never looked back. We have enjoyed every bit of the moments and have met some of the most wonderful people on the face of this earth. But it has not been all roses all the time. We encountered a few difficulties not only dealing with each other but also dealing with other people and the mere concept of the lifestyle itself. This website is not only for experienced swingers who want to keep up with the happenings and issues in the lifestyle but most importantly for those couples are contemplating the idea of swinging.

Carolina Gibbs

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	Do we tell our kids about what we do? How do we go about it?
	You probably don't need to go into the gory details or be explicit. But by simply stating you're adults and these are the decisions you make are things a lot of kids can respect...or at least my kids can respect that.

	What is closed, open and soft swinging?
	Soft swinging involves watching another couple during sexual encounters. Closed swinging: here partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in completely separate rooms. In Open swinging, partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room.

	At parties or when swapping, I have problems getting hard.It's depressing
	There is nothing to get depressed about this. By the tone of your question, I think I can see why you are having this problem: you are putting too much pressure on yourself to perform and ESPECIALLY not to disappoint. Take it easy. Go in there relaxed and not expecting to be a don juan. And think about the many ways you CAN please your partner(s) without an erection.. believe me there are many.

	I am new. Is it normal to feel jealous?
	Yes, As matter of fact, if you were not, i would be a bit worried.

	As a married man am I allowed to attend swingers parties as a single. Is that ok?
	You'll be welcomed whether you're married, dating, living with your significant other, or going steady. Today's world has changed dramatically from just a few years ago. Marriage is not a condition of belonging. Most clubs are for male/female couples only. You must be of legal age and both of you need to know what the club is all about.

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Carolina recommends... finally.

Since this site was up in 1998, I have always abstained from doing endorsement, especially for clubs, events etc since I cannot visit all the clubs nor can I attend all the events. But after so many requests, I have decided to give my two cents insofar as the sites. All the sites have their advantages and inconveniences. And obviously, if you can afford it, the more memberships to sites, the more chances you have. But if you were to have only two memberships, I would recommend:

Swingers Date Club or SDC: If you are looking for quality, SDC is your bet. Their site is very nicely done. Their chat feature is excellent and therefore has an average of over 3500 users at anytime. Excellent customer service. Their membership is always purged. They even refuse money from members they feel are not real!
Adult Friend Finder: I know it’s weird for me to recommend these guys since they are not dedicated to swingers. But I have a membership their and due to the huge membership base, we’ve meet great folks there, especially when were looking for females.

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PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.	BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.	EXHIBITIONIST Behaviour in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.
DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.	S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).	GBM Gay Black Male
OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.	ADULT Euphemism for pornographic	ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies
SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.	SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.	SGL (see SINGLE)

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When I Grow Up!

What I Wanna Be When I Grow Up

It's time to go back to when you were a child. Do you remember what you wanted to be when you grew up?...Doctor (gynecologist), Lawyer, Fireman, Cop, Exotic Dancer or Rock Star. Weather your dreams came true or not...we want to see what they were. Dress up for your fantasy job for the best time of your life.

The cost of this party is * $40.00 per couple, $15.00 for single ladies, and $30.00 for single men. Single men MUST be with a sponsor couple and spaces are limited for single men.
* SLS members will receive a $5.00 discount at the door.

The entry includes a full buffet(menu to Follow), music and dancing, contest, prizes and entry into the Golddust club on the second floor.

Remember this is a BYOB event so bring your drinks and we'll supply the mixers and our sexy bartenders.

Check Lisa's Toy Chest for all your costume and adult toy needs.What I Wanna Be When I Grow Up

Visit Pocono Playpen for more info and to register!

Date: Saturday, June 28, 2008 Place: White Haven, Pennsylvania Contact! lisa@lisastoychest.com

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I recommend that you read: "The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers".. This book is packed with historical facts regarding swinging. If you are comtemplating swinging, reading this book will not necessarily help you make up your mind but it will tell you who the swingers are.

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