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Couples' DOs and Don't
First the DOs
•Try new things, be open minded
•Communicate with each other
•Keep your partner’s comfort and security in mind at all time.
•Don’t rush: Don’t do something just because everyone else around you is doing it.
This is a lifestyle and you have your whole life to enjoy it! One step at a time.
•Set limits and Stick to it
•Wear something sexy: this is especially important for us women to feel sexy. It
boost our confidence and help us be more aggressive
•Be polite and considerate: even when rejecting someone, do it respectfully.
•Have a drink and mingle: try talking to people. Not necessarily people you would
be interested in but even those you are not.
•Ask questions…
•Censor your images so if you are naked, your face is not showing or if your face
is showing then make sure it’s a g-rated pic.*(see comment below).
•Read other people’s profile: don’t just look at the picture and rush to answer.
Make sure you are compatible… this will save you time and translate to less rejections.
•Make sure you are clean.
•Always wear Condoms!
•Be honest and describe yourself objectively.
Now the DONTs
•Don’t do anything you and/or your mate are not comfortable with “just to fit in”
•If it does not feel right don’t do it.
•Be afraid of rejection and let that be a barrier from approaching others.
•Don’t be too aggressive or overpowering.
•Do it without condoms.
•Don’t get drunk, loud or pushy.
•Smoke around people who don’t.
•Don’t lie about yourself, your looks or your status.
•Post naked pictures with your face showing.
•No means no. Respect their boundaries and they will respect yours.
* When placing an ad find out if non members can have access to all the pictures.
Usually sites will give the first picture free to all visitors but you have to be
a member to view the rest. So try to upload g-rated pics first.
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